I read
this post just now and I felt it was important to post the link. There are times I am driving and see children clearly too young (in my opinion) to be playing on their own, out riding their bikes, playing in the street, etc. No apparent supervision whatsoever. Is this right? Is it my responsibility to do something about it before something bad happens? Because I have never done anything about it...I shake my head and swear I will never allow that to happen in my family...I will never leave my children out in the open for someone to take...for something bad to happen. But if I were to do something, would that be overstepping boundaries? Thoughts?
The link I posted shared 2 different experiences where children were left alone. My 2 stories didn't happen to me but were relayed to me and happened within the past month.
1. At the neighborhood splash park, a child about 3 or 4 was found wandering alone in the parking lot, crying. My friend asked her if she needed help finding her mom and she replied yes. She walked the child back over to the splash park (which was at least 100 feet away, behind a building) and it turned out the child belonged to a group of children with 1 adult supervising all of them...a dayhome. When my friend confronted the woman, she replied nastily, "well, what do you expect, how can I watch 7 kids all at once?"
- okay, is that not disgusting? People have trusted this woman with their children. AND are paying her to watch them.
- if she can't handle that many kids, shouldn't she think about cutting back? Or if she can only handle them in a controlled environment (her home), should she not just stay there? Which, by the way, she is over the legal limit for Alberta anyhow...do the parents know this? Do they care? Are they turning a blind eye for a cheaper rate?
- my friend ended up doing nothing. Was that right? What could she have done? What comes to my mind is asking the woman what dayhome she ran and then attempt to get it shut down. Is that even possible if it's not regulated in the first place?
2. Another friend was at the lake. She noticed a commotion in the water and saw a lady running into the water where a child was practically drowning. The child was MAYBE 2. She pulls the kid out of the water and while the kid doesn't need mouth to mouth, he is clearly coughing up water and gasping for air. Then the woman starts yelling, "WHOSE CHILD IS THIS?" Over and over...and gets no responses whatsoever. Her husband joins her and they start racing around the beach trying to find this child's parents. Finally, a woman (who doesn't even stand up or look worried in the slightest) says, "oh, it's probably mine." WOW. I guess the lady who had rescued the child lost it at this point and started yelling at the woman and threatening to call the police. In the end, nothing was done. No one was called because the husband calmed down the lady and said it wasn't their business. Do you agree?